LOVE & LIGHT SERIES: Tanysha Shares

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Let The Healing Continue

Tanysha Carroll

In light of the recent events impacting our nation, what advice would you give to people in order to help them navigate the uncertainty?Please share one or two available resources that can help people right now.

I would advise people to not forget basic life skills.  Helping and caring for yourself is just as important as caring for others, if not more so.  When we think of life skills, I mean caring for your physical body, your emotional and mental health, your family members near and far.  Teach your children or nieces and nephews important things they should know, how to cook, how to iron, how to wash clothes.  In uncertain times we must go back to basics and ensure that we provide those we love and treasure with a good foundation.  Providing this information to the youth and young adults around me is important in this time.  After you have done these things for those in closest proximity, then you can look outward and offer the best of you to those who have no help.

One great place to get basic information is YouTube. There are so many “How To” videos and informational videos. I would also encourage connecting with mental health professional through your insurance. Many are offering Telehealth opportunities in this hour. I highly recommend https://wellsyncrtr.com/counseling/  

What is your personal mission in life? 

My personal mission is to be true to myself and others so that the best part of me will show up wherever I go.

What is one of the biggest challenges you have overcome?

One of the biggest challenges I overcame was regularly caring for a person I loved, who did not appreciate what I and other family members was doing for several years.

What one action helped you overcome this challenge?

When I began to express my love for that person freely and treating them with kindness even though they didn't respond to me in the same manner, there was a change in behavior.  Initially, I was very hurt and did not want to be around the person but, when I began to see them through God's eyes and with love our relationship changed.

How do you define leadership?

Leadership is living in such a way that your life speaks louder than anything you could ever say.  Leadership is humility, truth, and authenticity.

What advice would you give to anyone ashamed to share their story is?

I encourage people that sharing your story is freeing for you and empowering for others.  We walk in shame oftentimes because we think we are the only one going through what we are going through.  It is a lie!  When you begin to share you see how other people have similarities and you learn and grow along with those with which you share. Sharing is breaking free and breaking through.

People can reach me at? www.tanyshawcarroll.com ….imonassignment@gmail.com

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Tanysha W. Carroll Bio

Tanysha Carroll is a dynamic woman of God ordained to help other servant leaders, entrepreneurs, organizational leaders and young adults to stay true to their assignment when their flesh wants to quit.  She has devoted the last 3 years to creating opportunities for people of varying ages to look within and agree with the high calling on their life and its need for it in the world.

Tanysha is a regular contributor on Whenwomenheal.com, author of the book, “Chosen To Rise: How To Stay True To Your Assignment When Your Flesh Wants to Quit, and a truth seeking encourager, empowering you to live authentically.

Tanysha’s journey has equipped her to identify, recognize, and serve people as they fulfill their assignment.  Her past experience includes banking with SunTrust Bank for 3 years where Tanysha interacted with over 500 customers in person and via phone allowing her to learn and understand the variety in personalities, and the value of one on one connections in service.

Serving as a choir director, worship leader, and Elder of worship since the age of 15 has allowed Tanysha the opportunity to identify specific gifts, strengths, areas of improvement, and purpose within others. Teaching, training, and building hundreds of young people and adults has brought great joy and provided Tanysha with a keen eye to support people as they determine what works for them and what needs to be let go. 

For the last 11 years serving as the Administrative Assistant to the Pastors at Redeeming Love Christian has further built Tanysha’s heart to serve people and support them on their journey to purpose through varying assignments. Interacting with high level individuals in the religious and governmental community has allowed Tanysha to positively represent her pastors providing people with an experience which exudes trust, confidence, and consistency.

Tanysha served as a Teacher for an International ESOL company which allowed her the opportunity to move from adults to also include children by assisting students ages 8-60 with the goal of not only learning the language but also  interacting with varying personalities.  By assisting students as they overcome language, personal esteem challenges, confidence and even social skills, Tanysha has found her way to a love for helping people not give up.  Tanysha regularly identifies the fact that everyone has a unique assignment as well as challenges which will occur a long the way.  Everyone has not only a gift but an assignment. Tanysha’s desire for people is to not  give up but  endure in certain seasons of life in order to learn more about themselves, their purpose, and to have the greatest impact during the assignment.

Her commitment as a wife for over 17 years reveals the value of not giving up.  In addition, being the mother of two blessings, Marcus who is an aspiring artist and youthprenuer, and Makayla who is an amazing supporter of everyone who loves dancing and singing allowed Tanysha to grow and strengthen the family bond and being an example of faith, endurance, and hard work.  In any area you can grow beyond your current circumstance to your intended destiny. Tanysha desires to connect with people who desire just that and are willing to put in the work to accomplish it.

Compiled by Tanysha W. Carroll Contributor Coordinator www.tanyshawcarroll.com