Meet Coleen Otero

Meet Power Mom Coleen Otero

Celebrity Hair and Makeup Artist, Branding Strategist, Mentor, Motivational Speaker, Author, Entrepreneur, wife, and mom to 4 boys, Coleen Otero is the definition of doing it all with STYLE! Born in Jamaica, raised in Brooklyn, NY, and current resident of Orlando, FL for more than 15 years, Coleen Otero is a fashionista at heart. With over 20 years of experience in the beauty industry, Coleen has dedicated her life to not only helping individuals to look beautiful on the outside, but feel beautiful on the inside. Whether working out of a luxury salon, on set, or speaking on stage Coleen Otero openly shares her lessons learned as a cosmetologists, mom, wife, and woman of God. Her life’s passion is to help women be all that God has created her to be! From monthly “Get it Girl” calls to seminars and workshops—and let’s not forget her fun and sassy product line— Coleen is on a mission to help women be beautiful and successful!

TDR: Please tell us about your children and include their ages.

Coleen: 4 boys…ages 4, 5, 7, and 16. The oldest is homeschooled and does dual enrollment for college credit along with football at our local high school.  I also have a 17 year old step daughter; I call her my bonus child. They are all special and very energetic!

TDR: How are you balancing your passion with the responsibilities of parenthood?

Coleen: TEAM WORK! Without community it is difficult to do even in a two parent home. I work behind my chair only 2-3 days a week because my primary purpose and focus is raising my children, paying attention to their needs, fears, concerns, and of course their strengths. The other days I am not behind the chair, I schedule virtual clients but I limit how many I take.

TDR: What are some of your challenges and how do you work to overcome them?

Coleen: Scheduling is a constant challenge. With the kids, school, other after school activities, work and travel; it is imperative to stick to a strict scheduling system. I use an online booking system to stay on task. Another challenge is healthy eating and cooking. I have had to get my oldest involved in this process. I do prefer to cook Monday through Friday, so we have to plan ahead and work as a family unit to have dinner ready when hubby gets home from work.

TDR: What are 2 resources you use to help you stay motivated?

Coleen: The bible, and audible success books like ‘Millionaire Next Door’ and ‘Rich Dad Poor Dad’.

TDR: What is your favorite way to pause?

Coleen: I put on spa music on Pandora and pray. I read my word as much as possible and it’s more like read a scripture and meditate on it and repeat it. On a natural side, I like pampering at least bi-weekly and weekend getaways on a quarterly basis. I also love watching the travel channel, House Hunters International, and home remodeling shows. LOL!

TDR: What has been the scariest moment or crossroad in your journey?

Coleen: The market crash hurt us deeply, we lost our homes and cars....BUT GOD! It strengthened our faith, our marriage, and our family unit. It showed us who was really for us, which was next to no one when the funds ran out. It taught us the importance of Proverbs 13:7 which states the wealthy pretends to be poor. It put a lot of things in perspective on how we are to treat ourselves, others and the resources He gives us. In it all it was the greatest lesson and it took years to recover.

TDR: What would be your greatest advice to other "Power Moms" wanting to pursue their dreams?

Coleen: IT'S NOT AN OVERNIGHT PROCESS! You must be patient while working on your dream...the manifestation is what comes after the process. So seek wisdom on the process. What have others before you endured to get to where they are? What is required to maintain the dream you desire? Hunt people down for knowledge and wisdom NOT stuff! FALL IN LOVE WITH THE PROCESS. Find peace with your process and be anxious for nothing! Enjoy and Embrace the journey!

TDR: What word best describes the legacy you want to leave for your children and why? 

Coleen: FAITH IN GOD…He is real, He won't lie, He will see you to the end of thing, He will lead you, and He can handle your issues.

TDR: How can others collaborate and support your mission?

Coleen: Join my Get it Girl Facebook group and monthly call. Check out my site for products and services.

Connect with Coleen:

Facebook - Coleen Otero (FB),

Twitter & Periscope - YourBeautyXpert

Instagram - Beautyxpert Coleen

www.coleenotero.com

MEET JANNA BROWN

New View with Janna Brown

TDR:  What issues are you most passionate about in your community?

Janna: The issues I am most passionate about in my community are increasing the self-worth of our youth, especially young girls, and women. Everything stems from our self-worth. How we operate in life and business is impacted by what we believe about ourselves and what we have been through. Many times the biggest obstacle we have that keeps us from achieving our success are the lies we tell ourselves based on past hurt and disappointments. We believe the negative more than the positive of what others think and say about us and our future. If I can help someone realize their fullest potential and to discover who they truly are, who they were created to be, to understand and change their mindset, their belief about themselves, then I would have accomplished what God has created me to do and be. Nothing brings a smile to my face more than to see someone accomplish their goals when they didn't think they could because they were thinking and living beneath their fullest potential.

TDR: What are most of your philanthropy efforts typically directed towards serving?

Janna: Most of my philanthropy efforts are typically directed towards serving youth and women. I know firsthand the impact you can have on a youth when you take the time to pour into them. I have seen the lives of youth changed because they were involved in a positive outlet where their voice was heard. I love helping women see the best in themselves and accomplish their goals. I currently work with a non-profit organization that builds character through the performing art in youth and have been doing so for the past 10+ years. I get so much joy out of serving.

TDR:  How do you define leadership?

Janna: Leadership is being able to place others before yourself for the greater good of the cause. It is also being able to inspire others to become passionate ambassadors about the cause and who they are serving because they know you genuinely care about them and their success. I always say that if you take care of your people, they will take care of you.

TDR:  How would you define your leadership style?

Janna: I would describe my leadership style as servant because I am always looking for ways to uplift and grow my team. To pull out the best in them and provide opportunities that pulls on their passion and develops their interest. I always ask how we can make this a win-win situation. I also know that this helps to foster a healthy, productive and trusting environment and relationship because my team understands I am concerned about them. Therefore, they are passionate about executing the project and going above and beyond. In the process, I realized that this leadership style also helped to produce successors who can teach others and phenomenal individuals who move on to birth amazing businesses.

TDR:  What would be the most painful lesson that you've learned in life that has helped you become who you are today?

Janna: The most painful lesson I have learned in life that has helped me become who I am today is to take responsibility for your actions even when you are afraid of failing. I have made mistakes and I had to learn how to own up to those mistakes and become more of a problem solver to rectify the mess I had made. This was challenging for me because I never wanted to let anyone down or feel as if I had failed them or wasted the company’s money. The first time it happened I was devastated and wrought because I didn't know what to do, however, after a few of those experiences, it caused me to become more of a problem-solver and to take more risks because I knew failure was a part of the process.

TDR:  What would people be surprised to know that you had to overcome?

Janna: People would be surprised to know that I had to overcome, and at times still overcoming, low self-esteem, fear and self-worth. I am a natural born leader and have come to understand my gifting, however, people never knew the struggle of what I was going through while I was operating in my gifts because I seemed so confident even though I was uncertain.

TDR:  Name 3 leaders that you look up to. 

Janna: Three leaders I look up to are my uncle Maynard Jackson, my husband Darrell Brown and Theresa Spralling. I look up to my uncle Maynard because of all that he did for the community and to help shape Atlanta into what it is today. He faced difficulties and fear but he still continued to press forward. But what was even more remarkable to me was his passion for the people and their love and passion for him. They called him the peoples Mayor and he NEVER forgot a name. A remarkable legacy was left behind. I look up to my husband because of his dedication and fearlessness. He inspires me so much as an entrepreneur. He jumps out there to take risk, he is always expanding himself, creating new opportunities, implementing his multiple gifts, dedicated to his family and the community and he doesn't let fear of the unknown prevent him from exploring a path. He really helped to shape me into the person I am today. But don't tell him I told you that lol. I look up to Theresa Spralling because of the work she is accomplishing with women at AT&T. She has grown their women's organization tremendously and has such an open heart to help others and young adults. From the moment I met her I admired her work and what she has accomplished.

TDR:  Name 3 of your favorite books.

Janna: Three of my favorite books are Who Moved My Cheese, The Art of Client Service and BOSS Women Pray.

TDR:  What is your advice for emerging leaders?

Janna: My advice for emerging leaders is to find your leadership style and yourself because when you are genuine you will attract genuine people to work with and serve. Really cultivate a relationship with your team. Of course keep it professional but really get to know them and let them know you. When they see who you truly are they will be willing to go to battle with you.

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years ago I was…

Janna: 5 years ago I was working at a marketing agency called GTM and I had just wrapped up working on the truth Campaign, a national and successful campaign, for 10 years. It was a weird place because I had to reposition and transition to a new space in my life and within the company. Saying goodbye to something you were committed to for so long was extremely difficult because I loved what I did. I also didn't realize how I had allowed that campaign to define who I was, therefore, when it ended I felt lost until I found a new purpose again.

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years from now I hope to be…

Janna: 5 years from now I hope to be serving women and young girls in a way that truly impacts and transforms their lives. I hope to do this by traveling as a professional speaker, hosting conferences, producing workshops and various products for my business. I want to be able to make an impact on their self-worth, who they believe they are and help them to manifest the visions that God has given them to birth.

TDR:  If you could describe yourself in one word, what would it be and why?          

Janna: Passionate. Passionate because it encompasses a lot of who I am (love, joy, happiness), it shows commitment to getting the job done, it is contagious, it brings an internal fire that has to be quenched, and it is about serving others.

TDR: What are some of your current initiatives people can help you with?

Janna: The K.I.D.D.S. Dance Project - We build character through the performing arts in youth ages 4-17 and we are always looking for volunteers to help with marketing for our annual spring recital Resurrection. This is our 20th year of the production, and every year is free to the community. It is a dramatic dance interpretation of the crucifixion of Christ. You can go to www.kiddsdanceproject.com to find out more details or donate. 

The other organization I work with is called the Show Me Shoes Foundation. They assist young girls who have experienced unexpected hardships. Their mission is to encourage and inspire young girls to become successful young women giving them the gift of opportunities, networking, and leadership by "Building confidence from the "SOLE". Each year they collect dresses and shoes to give away at the Prom Project event in Atlanta, Kansas and LA. To find out how to volunteer or to donate some items go to www.showmeshoes.org

Connect with Janna:

E-mail - bookme@jannab.com

Facebook @jannab

Twitter, Instagram, and Periscope @jannabspeaks

www.jannab.com

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GRATITUDE MONDAY WITH LESLIE BRISCOE

What you're working with
“Many Thanx” 

Wow! This is such a great message- the line that mentions "not spending time improving your weaknesses" and "not wasting valuable time focused on things outside of your natural gifting" smacked me in the face. I've been conditioned to always improve the weakness or "opportunity" as it is described in Corporate America! Ha! It's easy to forget who and whose we are and that at the end of the day He will make it happen regardless of the review, chart, survey, etc.! Flowing in our grace is the key! Hope you enjoy this as much as I did!

Today’s Scripture
“Do not neglect your gift...”
(1 Timothy 4:14, NIV)

Pursue Your Strengths
God has equipped each one of us with specific gifts and talents. It’s up to each of us to identify those gifts and be disciplined enough to develop them. You have to learn to stay in your strength zone. What are you naturally good at? What do you enjoy doing? Take the time to identify your strengths and weaknesses, and as the Scripture says, give yourself to your gifts. In other words, don’t spend all your time trying to improve your weaknesses. Don’t waste valuable days pursuing things that are outside your main gifting. Focus on your strengths.
Be bold and step out in the area of your gifting. Are you good with people? Are you good with your hands? Do you have a great voice? Find ways to develop those gifts. Know that your gifts and talents are a part of your divine destiny. If you’ll be comfortable with who God made you to be and thank Him for your unique gifting, you’ll not only enjoy your life more, but you’ll be ready to receive the abundant blessing God has in store for you!

A Prayer for Today

“Father, thank You for equipping me with everything I need to be successful in this life. Show me how to develop the gifts within me for Your glory in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

Words of Wisdom

- Leslie

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Meet Ranita Williams

Meet Power Mom Ranita Williams

“There is no timeline in achieving your dream or passion. It is a pursuit, a chase, until the day you can say everything that I prayed, dreamed, desired, and wished for; I have achieved it and now it's time to share it unselfishly.”

Tierra Destiny Reid:  Please give us a brief recap of your career.

Ranita Williams:  My passion is working with people with developmental disabilities. My most recent job was the Medicaid Administrator for Montgomery County Maryland. I have been blessed to work jobs that I love, which is helping people. I have been working with people with disabilities for over 35 years. I am in the process of relocating to Atlanta, Georgia to begin a new chapter in my career. Although I have been in Management for 30 of my 35 year career, I am ready to be more of a hands on employee. I would like to get back to my roots and work in the group home settings and offer my expertise and knowledge to my co-workers. But most importantly I want to work directly with the individuals with disabilities living and working in the community.

TDR:  Tell us about your children.

RW:  I have two children ages 26 (girl) and 29 years old (boy). My children live together pursing their education. Both are graduates of Morgan State University in Maryland. Although I was married for 30 years, once my children became teenagers I felt like I was a single parent raising the children with little help. My children are very respectful, well-mannered and hard-working. On the other hand both are timid, vulnerable and easily persuaded. Therefore, I instilled in them that that there were only two leaders, God and themselves. Follow God and he will direct your paths. Follow your dreams as they are far better than following someone else’s dreams.

TDR:  How are you juggling your passion with the responsibilities of parenthood?

RW:  To ensure I was being a good parent, I incorporated my passion into my lifestyle and raising my children. I always wanted to help people accomplish the best for themselves. What better way than to start at home. My children saw me working long hours, sometimes 2-3 jobs in pursuit of my passion. Years later after my children moved here from Maryland, I asked my son "how is it that you have a 3.6 grade point average now and when you were at Morgan State University, you barely had a 2.0 grade point average?"  He said, “It’s easy when you what you do is a passion then it's not considered work.”  I guess what I thought was hard work has always been my passion and now I see it in my children.

TDR:  What are some of your struggles and how do you work to overcome them?

RW:  As most single parents, finances are my greatest struggle and obstacle. Once I realized that I was in an emotionally abusive marriage, I decided to sacrifice everything and move my children here to Atlanta so that they could pursue their dreams. I stopped paying my bills and picked up additional jobs so I could support them.  It was truly a struggle with very little financial help from their father. I don't have any regrets. I knew that with any struggle it was temporary. As they say I had been in the "valley for a long time and getting out would be an upward battle.”  But at the end of the day I would come out of the battle at some point and have the victory. I am not quite victorious but have overcome some battles and the war is not over yet. But one day I know that without the shadow of a doubt I shall win and be victorious. I see light at the end of the tunnel.
TDR:  What are 2 resources you use to help you stay motivated?

RW:  Attending church is my greatest resource. It keeps me motivated and grounded. I read scriptures of what Jesus went through and my issues seem so small compared to the Biblical characters in the Bible. I ask myself what is the worst that could happen and if it's that bad I don't have any control over it anyway.
My children are a resource for they remind me of how proud I am of them and not to brag I am proud of myself. I look and talk to my children to see how much they have matured and how much they have changed and improved. It is a wonderful thing to see and witness your offspring to do so well. My children motivate me. The encouraged me to leave my job and relocate to live with them.

TDR:  What is your favorite way to pause?

RW:  Reflection is my best pause. Quietly sitting in my car or apartment reflecting on the past, present, and what is about to come. They are all very positive. Even if it was something negative that occurred, in the end it has turned into something good. Quiet moments- no music, no television, and nature is my best pause.

TDR:  What has been the scariest moment or crossroad in your journey?

RW:  I am perhaps in my scariest moment now. I just resigned from my job in Montgomery County Maryland as a Senior Manager overseeing the Medicaid program. Good job, good salary, and a host of influential people who knew my work. I am relocating to Atlanta, Georgia with no job and I am moving in with my two children. After a bitter divorce, my credit is horrible and the likelihood of being able to get an apartment on my own is very slim. It’s scary but I am not afraid. I am not afraid because I am starting over. I cannot bring fear into the equation or else I will not succeed or triumph. I am making this move on pure faith and belief that God will work everything out. I know my strengths and my weaknesses. I thought leaving my husband of 30 years was a scary moment but I survived it and I will survive and conquer this new adventure in my life. I am beginning a new journey at 58 years old and I am looking forward to it with God's blessings.

TDR:  What would be your greatest advice to other "Power Moms" wanting to pursue their dreams?

RW:  As the Nike cliché says "Just Do It.” Remove the words, "What if, But, Can't, Won't, and Fear.” Replace the words with "I can, So What, and Try again.” You must know your dreams. Not the dreams that someone else tells you. An example. "Girl you are a good cook, you should open up your own catering company.” You must ask the question. “Is fulfilling my dream is to cook or own my own business?” You can have both but each dream or passion comes with a sacrifice and you must be willing to stand the test of the sacrifices. You must take ownership and responsibility if the challenges are too great. This is your dream therefore you can't have any doubts.

TDR:  What word best describes the legacy you want to leave for your children and why?

RW:  No dream or passion is worth pursuing without sacrifice. Sacrifice is not just going without buying new shoes or having extra money.  Sacrifice is the desire to give up and walk away from your comfort zone to pursue your dream and chase your passion. You must want it enough for eternity. There is no timeline in achieving your dream or passion. It is a pursuit, a chase, until the day you can say everything that I prayed, dreamed, desired, and wished for; I have achieved it and now it's time to share it unselfishly.

TDR:  How can others collaborate and support your mission?

RW:  Partnering with others through support groups and workshops. Networking is key and unselfish sharing of resources.

Connect with Ranita
Facebook - Ranita Monica Pulliam Williams

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MEET DR.SAKEISHA HYLICK

New View with Dr. Sakeisha Hylick

TDR:  What issues are you most passionate about in your community?    

Dr. Sakeisha: One of the issues that I am most passionate about in the community is the alarming increase in the divorce rate among couples. Both my husband and I are products of divorce and we have committed to help couples begin to succeed where many marriages have failed. Our mission is to help decrease the rate of divorce by Educating, Empowering and Encouraging husbands and wives to WIN in their Marriage. It is our desire to help couples be prepared with the tools and strategies necessary to overcome what we call "The Great Divide" in marriage, which is Communication, Finances and Sex. It is these three key elements that contributes to the increase in divorce and we want to help couples succeed in these areas.

TDR: What are most of your philanthropy efforts typically directed towards serving?

Dr. Sakeisha: My efforts are typically directed towards serving those who have experienced unanticipated interruptions in their finances. The lack of income can have a significant impact on a marriage so we donate clothing and school supplies to parents who are otherwise unable to do so. We provide temporary housing for those who were victims of unfortunate life circumstances. I enjoy serving dinner to the homeless at various events and participating in clothing drives that facilitate the transition of women back into the workplace.

TDR:  How do you define leadership?

Dr. Sakeisha: I define leadership as a person who can not only create an inspiring vision but also motivates and inspires people to be their best self. A person who is in a leadership capacity that helps manage the delivery of the vision and coaches the team to help achieve the vision.

TDR:  How do you define your leadership style?

Dr. Sakeisha: My leadership style is Motivational. As women we wear many hats and face multiple challenges and I encourage the couples that I serve to consider new techniques that will help their Marriage to Win. I motivate them to want to succeed in their marriage. The truth is that God is no respector of persons, if he could bring me out the most challenging situations on my marriage, my goal is to inspire others to do the same. I try to always be mindful of that in my leadership style.

TDR:  What would be the most painful lesson that you've learned in life that has helped you become who you are today?

Dr. Sakeisha: Never to make a permanent decision in a temporary situation. In life we all experience our victories, as well as our challenges. Can you imagine what life would be like if we gave up every time we encountered an obstacle? I enjoy being able to look back over some of the darkest moments in my life when I wanted to give up but I didn't and I draw from those experiences to help others press their way through. It is okay if they need to Pause and regroup but not remain stuck there. Don't allow that one temporary setback to stifle your growth. Utilize it as a stepping stone to get back up again and use it is fuel to help others who may be experiencing the same thing.

TDR:  What would people be surprised to know that you had to overcome?

Dr. Sakeisha: What's so funny, is that I've had many people tell me that they thought that I've had it easy all of my life. That couldn't be further from the truth. I wore a mask very well. People would be surprised to know that I've had to overcome molestation and the divorce of my parents which resulted in low self-esteem, fear and overall unworthiness. At one point in my life, I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror! Everything had to be perfect in order for me to feel accepted and or worthy. As an adult I've had to overcome bankruptcy, repossession, fear of public speaking and shyness. Me? Shy? Absolutely, it was a daily struggle. But the truth is now I am able to recognize those who also wear that same mask that everything is okay, when it truly isn't. I draw from the pain of the past and use it to help other women overcome those challenges as well.

TDR:  Name 3 leaders that you look up to.     

Dr. Sakeisha: The first leader that I look up to is my Pastor Dr. Riva Tims. Pastor Riva is the epitome of a Proverbs 31 Woman. She is a bold, but humble leader and she encourages and inspires ever one that she comes into contact with. The second leader that I look up to is First Lady Michelle Obama. Wife, mother and First Lady are just a few of the many hats she wears. Additionally, she is an advocate for poverty awareness and is a champion for Military families and spouses and is a proponent to help combat childhood obesity. The third leader that I look up to is Oprah. One of the things that I admire the most about her is her business acumen. She's relatable, inspirational and emotionally intelligent. Her efforts to establish a Leadership Academy for Girls helps fuel my determination to keep going in spite of any challenges that I may face.

TDR:  Name 3 of your favorite books.

Dr. Sakeisha: The Bible. It's my source for any and everything. Reading the Bible provides the direction that I need and the inspiration to keep going.

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. After I read this book, my entire marriage was transformed. The doors of communication were opened like never before. I began to see my husband from a different perspective and I encourage all married couples to read this book.

Battlefield of The Mind by Joyce Meyer is another favorite book because it showed me when things like worry, doubt, confusion fear, anger and/ or frustration began to surface, it was an attack of the enemy and it helped me realize how to overcome these challenges by halting their ability to influence my life and the decisions that I made or were tempted to make

TDR:  What is your advice for emerging leaders?

Dr. Sakeisha: My first piece of advice would be "Don't grow weary in well doing for you shall reap if you faint not". Often times a person may measure success by the number of people that attend their seminars or workshops or the number of people that follow them on Periscope and Twitter but the true value lies in those that you are truly able to assist. My second piece of advice would be to identify your strengths and flow intentionally in that element. Don't try to be a jack of all trades and a master of none. Third, do not be afraid to ask for help. It doesn't make you any less of a leader. A great leader will surround himself with others that excel in areas in which he /she may not. Fourth, Consistency is key. My final piece of advice would be to never stop learning or striving for growth.

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years ago I was…

Dr. Sakeisha: I was in the midst of bankruptcy, facing foreclosure, repossession, unhappy with my job and on the verge of walking away from everything and everyone because I lost my desire to fight. I felt defeated and unworthy of being a wife, a mother, a Pharmacist, a leader....... but GOD!!!

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years from now I hope to be…

Dr. Sakeisha: Away from the healthcare arena and working full-time helping to Educate, Empower and Encourage couples to Win In their Marriage. I plan to be traveling the globe with my husband, hosting seminars to equip couples with the tools and strategies necessary to succeed in their marriage. I plan to have at least three more books published and DVD training series for marriages completed as well.

TDR:  If you could describe yourself in one word, what would it be and why?

Dr. Sakeisha: Determined. I use that term because regardless of how many obstacles how come my way, God has blessed me with the ability to keep going in spite of the severity of various hardships that I have encountered throughout my life.

TDR: What are some of your current initiatives people can help you with? 

Dr. Sakeisha: My current initiative that people can help me with is the Marriage Can Win Initiative. We are desiring to connect with couples that are serious about winning in their marriage. We are currently putting together tele-classes so that we can reach couples across the globe. If you or someone you know is experiencing challenges in their marriage particularly in the areas of Communication, Finances and Sex; please have them contact us via our website. Our book "Marriage Can Win" will be available for purchase soon.

Connect with Dr. Sakeisha

Periscope, Instagram and Twitter @ Dr.Sakeisha
www.MarriageCanWin.com

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GRATITUDE MONDAY WITH LESLIE BRISCOE

God's Timing
“Many Thanx” 

Hello ladies! I had to share my devotional I read yesterday because I am sure a lot of you are planners like me and want things to happen when we think they should and the way we think they should happen. I wish it worked that way but if we live long enough we realize that God’s timing is not our own. Enjoy and rest in confidence knowing He’s got a plan for us – and many times it is so much more than we could have ever imagined. 
“I will go before you and make the crooked places straight” – Isaiah 45:2

He Prepares Your Path
Do you ever feel like that every time you try to move forward in something, you hit a roadblock? Maybe something happens that throws you off course? Be encouraged today because right now, God is going before you. He’s preparing a way. It may not be the way you thought, but you can be sure that God’s ways are higher than our own. Trust that He is making your crooked places straight and your rough places smooth.
You may be going through a difficult time right now, but it’s not the end. It’s only the beginning. God has equipped you for this journey. Keep speaking words of faith and listen for His still, small voice. Trust that He is leading and guiding you. Keep an attitude of praise and thanksgiving and move forward in the good things He has prepared for you!

A Prayer for Today

“Father, thank You for Your goodness in my life. Thank You for preparing my path in life. I trust that You are restoring my soul and leading me into victory in everything I do in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

Words of Wisdom

- Leslie

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Meet Jade Ladson

Meet Power Mom Jade Ladson

Tierra Destiny Reid:  Please give us a brief recap of your career.
Jade Ladson:  I am a Certified Wedding and Event Coordinator with TSO Events. My top responsibility is to listen to my client’s dreams and vision for their upcoming wedding or event. Once I have that vision, I bring it to life by handling all of the behind the scene tasks while eliminating stress from the clients day to day life.

TDR:  Please tell us about your children. 
JL:  David is 24 years old and handles graphics for the company, S'Tonya is my 11 year old Mini Me and when she isn't cheering or dancing; she pitches in on all aspects of Wedding Planning and Event Planning. Marcus is the baby and definitely a handful. He's 6.5 years old and enjoys helping to stuff the favor bags for all of about 5 minutes and then he's bored.
    
TDR:  How are you juggling your passion with the responsibilities of parenthood?
JL:  I make sure that my entire family is a part of every event. Sometimes we all go out to conduct site visits and that allows us an opportunity to discuss the heritage that every venue has to offer. Also when I'm prepping for the event, everyone gets to pitch in with making sure our quantities are right {This helps The Boy Child with his numbers and he doesn't even know it's school work}.  Aside from including the family in the events, I still find time to make sure they have time that is individual and just for them. Whether it's just hanging at the mall or going out for dinner; it's a time where all calls are on hold and I get to focus my undivided attention on my family.
    
TDR:  What are some of your struggles and how do you work to overcome them?
JL:  The biggest struggle is making sure our schedules don't clash. When you have a Socialite for a daughter and your 1st grader is always getting invited to birthday parties on the days that you have to work, things tend to get a little tricky. What's working right now, is having a Desk Calendar. Everyone can write their extracurricular activities on the calendar and as long as it's not something last minute... we pull together to make it happen.

TDR:  What are 2 resources you use to help you stay motivated?
JL:  Motivational books and Pinterest    

TDR:  What is your favorite way to pause?
JL:  Listening to and enjoying some 80's music.

TDR:  What has been the scariest moment or crossroad in your journey?
JL:  My crossroad came when I realized that wedding & event coordinating had to be more than a passion. It also needed to be profitable. I was so concerned that all events were as beautiful as possible that I was investing my own money into clients' decor. I realized that if I wanted my events to have a certain look and appeal; it was time to change my target market to attract those clients.

TDR:  What would be your greatest advice to other "Power Moms" wanting to pursue their dreams?
JL:  No matter how difficult things may get... Don't give up and don't exclude your family. They will support you when everyone else walks away.

TDR:  What word best describes the legacy you want to leave for your children and why?
JL:  Partnership, Regardless of the routes they choose in life, TSO has always been a part of their lives and it always will be. Whether they choose to run it themselves or hire staff. I want the 3 of them to do it together... As a partnersh.
    
TDR:  How can others collaborate and support your mission?
JL:  If you know of anyone recently engaged or getting ready to celebrate a special occasion, please have them contact TSO Events. Each of our coordinators is professionally trained and has a calming presence and provides a voice of reason throughout the planning process.

Connect with Jade:
Twitter – @TsoEvents
Instagram - @TsoEvents

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WINE DOWN WEDNESDAYS WITH REGINA

Burgundy Series Volume One

As many of you know I love Chardonnay! I will be reviewing wines from this acclaimed area. 

The Cote de Beaune area is the Southern part of the Cote d'Or. The great name of white Burgundy such as Meursault and Chassagne-Montrachet have made this area known for the most exquisite Chardonnays ever made.

2007 Hubert Lamy Saint-Aubin Premier Cru.

This wine is full bodied, with the taste of baked fruits and minerality. Despite its age the wine still has good acidity. 

I really love the taste of this wine, its complex aromas and taste on the palate makes this wine a true gem.

I would definitely recommend this wine for a special evening served with a chicken or seafood dish.

#mywinelife

Connect with Regina:

Website: www.corksandcuvee.com

Twitter: @winewithregina

Instagram: winewithregina

Facebook: Corks and Cuvee

MEET ROSEWITHA G. SHELTON

New View with Rosewitha G. Shelton

TDR:  What issues are you most passionate about in your community?    

Rose: Children exhibiting a global mindset through global experiences and young women self-defining.

TDR: What are most of your philanthropy efforts typically directed towards serving?

Rose: Young adults and children that desire to travel with their schools, church organizations or enrichment programs. When I was in high school my father gave up his job as an engineer and went back to school to become a Lutheran Pastor. The youth programs within the Lutheran Organization were so enriching that it changed my life and perspective of the world. The travel opportunities my father connected me to and the networking that occurred at such a young age created a belief in me that I could go anywhere in the world and somehow succeed and be divinely connected to who I needed to connect with. I believed that I could go anywhere in the world and never be lonely or alone. The diversity of the people I met and the places I traveled made me feel unlimited in my reach into the world. I felt that I could go as far as the people I knew and the streets they walked. When I joined the military, it further supported this belief. I desire this freedom of mind and experience for every child to help them discover who they are and who they desire to be without the limitations of the community and locality in which they live to define and marginalize their dreams and abilities.

TDR:  How do you define leadership?    

Rose: Being willing to take the chances necessary to bring about the vision held within you. One who is willing to live and die as the example for a vision beyond one’s self. Brave enough to try and fail and try again because they understand the importance of their efforts and the dream within and tune out the naysayers. Paving ways unpaved, exploring roads untraveled and then giving a detailed map with the pitfalls, curved roads and short cuts around mountains to the next one willing to travel the same or similar route of uniqueness. One not afraid or ashamed of their weaknesses or failings because they understand the power lies in their ups and downs. One willing to dare to drive ahead when all around them is crumbling and telling them they are not perfect enough. They understand the imperfections are what makes them perfectly more than enough. A leader is not a superhero, they just know how to play one when it's necessary.

TDR:  How do you define your leadership style?

Rose: Always evolving, yet consistent in practicality. I am a big picture person. As a leader, I see myself as the holder of the vision, but not a micromanager of the manifestation. I lead because I see, not because I always know. That is why I also listen so I can learn and the dream can expand beyond the walls of my own imagination if necessary.

TDR:  What would be the most painful lesson that you've learned in life that has helped you become who you are today?

Rose: You can’t make or help anyone be anything they don't want to be. You can’t help anyone reach levels of success they have first not seen or desired for themselves. No matter what potential you see in a person, if they can’t or do not make the effort to walk out their potential or buy into the vision of their own life, they can’t do it for you either. Everyone has potential, but do they have the drive and will? Are they flexible and stretchable? Can their mind be changed? What evidence shows this to be true? When you are a leader you have to think about the entire team, not just one or a few, because though one monkey may not stop the show, they sure can mess it up for everyone else. And as a leader, I will always be left holding the bag. I have learned to let go of things, people or ideas that drain progress so that the train can move down the road to its destination. Destiny, never allows ticketless passengers anyway, so no need to keep anyone on the train that does not buy into the vision (my vision). I only want those willing to push the vision forward to come along and then ride upon the vision realized. The vision and purpose is more important than one person, because the vision realized helps many. I accept people for who they are, where they are and what they desire for they and I don't judge it. We are all in transition and where we need to be right now. I just no longer try to put square pegs in round holes or round pegs in square ones. I further realized that at some point of this push to get people to change I must think I know better and am putting myself in the place of their god. Loving and accepting people where they are and for who they are is the best gift I can give them and myself. I only sow seeds and offer choice and opportunity, the rest is in the hand of the person. They are their own creator.

TDR:  What would people be surprised to know that you had to overcome?

Rose: Several miscarriages, 3 ectopic pregnancies, a son still born and a daughter who died from a rare kidney cancer and in the end, I had two beautiful little girls. Accepting that God is not what or who I believed. I had to overcome my belief system to allow Spirit to show me that I am a co-creator with power to create in my own life.

TDR:  Name 3 leaders that you look up to. 

Rose: My parents. My father for stepping out and following his path into being a Lutheran pastor which was different and unique in our family. I appreciate him weathering the storms that came with being unique. I remember the pushback he received when offering his diverse and large visions of God and community, while exposing me to the unlimited possibilities of life and my reach into the world community of all peoples. The global mindset was priceless. My mother for standing as a strong tower beside her husband who she respects as a spiritual leader as well as her man while also creating her own path of success. The complexity of operating in that balance is unique and takes a special person who knows herself and her spouse and he, in turn, respects her greatness. I watched my mother and grandmother lead from the sideline in a quiet confidence (okay, my grandmother was not as quiet). When you have the ear of the leader and the heart of the leader, you are always in a position of power and control. To not manipulate or abuse that power is due to understanding the larger picture and the role you play because that leader lives or dies with your ability to operate fully in your capacity of love and upholder of his vision as well as your own. They as a unit I admire because they find a way to love and see God in all things and people despite being hurt by the same individuals they sacrifice to help because they understand the larger picture and the importance of those they are still responsible for under their leadership. 
Michelle Obama is another one I see who does this quite effortlessly. She maintains her composure and holds her tongue despite what the media and world throws at her. She understands and operates within the bigger picture as well. She has the heart, mind and ear of the leader as well as her own path that she carves out as an example for her own girls which vibrates into the world. I believe that if you can lead and serve another leader at the same time, you understand your purpose and destiny is connected to a larger vision and you must have a stronger will and sensibility than most. You understand the importance of the larger vision and how it must be protected and cared for so that the vision you have for yourself and those around you and the vision those around you have for themselves and others can be realized. That is a leader worth respecting and following. 
Finally, I know people say Oprah all the time, but for me I admire her for being courageous enough to speak her truth and allow her evolution of mind and spirit to be at the forefront of her life so that others may be free to operate in the evolution of their own. I have always thought and believed differently from the religious standards and ideals around me, but no one that looked like me spoke anything contrary other than my grandmother. However, that was in secret behind closed doors. Watching Ms. Oprah embrace diversity of culture and religion and take the blows from her own people with her head up gave me courage that I too could accept the dissention because my beliefs were that important. I did not worry any longer if I would be the only one that looked like me with my background saying out loud that Christ is a consciousness we forsake to embrace while holding up the title of Christian. I no longer worried about the fact that I believed that Buddhism, Hinduism, Voodoo and Islam are all beautiful religions that I have studied and appreciate the part they play and the truths they hold. I was allowed to be comfortable within myself of this truth because she did, thus allowing another to be free as well. And when they are free, a truth they hold will be released to help and bless another who is waiting on them to speak the word they hold. As Paul wrote, “I believed, and therefore have I spoken; we also believe, and therefore speak”. We lead by example so that others may be free to do the same.

TDR:  Name 3 of your favorite books.

Rose: Of course my own! But also, anything written by Neville Goddard, The Tao Te Ching and my favorite book of the Bible - Isaiah. Isaiah speaks to me and sings my song.

TDR:  What is your advice for emerging leaders?

Rose: Embrace your message, vison and desires even if you don't understand how or why they are important. Your uniqueness is important to the world. Give it, protect it, nurture it and love it into its fullness. Your light is a light unto another's path. Someone is watching you and God is using your life to speak to them.

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years ago I was…

Rose: Thinking of making a career change and publishing my first book.

TDR:  Complete this sentence…5 years from now I hope to be…

Rose: Be a world renowned author, teacher and motivational speaker.

TDR:  If you could describe yourself in one word, what would it be and why?

Rose: Open. I think I have come to a place in my life where I am open to receive and be directed by Spirit. Allowing life to unfold authentically. This is a scary and tricky practice because we are not conditioned to operate this way, though created to do so. Logic often has to be overcome. However, for elevation it is necessary to walk with your own spirit authentically to know where you end and the rest of the world begins so your light shines and you are not the reflection of what already is.

TDR: What are some of your current initiatives people can help you with? 

Rose: I am starting a non-profit to fund young adults in inner cities and rural areas to study abroad. It is important that our society as a whole embraces a global mindset, especially African Americans. Limitation in experience creates limitation in dreams and aspirations. When you know the world is full of unlimited possibilities for yourself, you have less of a chance of allowing your community borders to define your opportunities in life. I also want to document and record my teachings. I want others to be able to get the message easily and understand the messages I have to be applicable to them.

Connect with Rose: 

@Rosegshelton (periscope, twitter and facebook)
www.centeroffirstthought.com

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